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Men In Dance: In Their Own Words

 

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Alex Hathaway, age 11, has performed in Detroit in the Radio City Christmas Spectacular and the Joffrey Ballet’s Nutcracker. He has participated in the NYCDA Nationals.

 

Memorable moments:

The Radio City Christmas Spectacular was an awesome experience. To be so lucky to have a professional job at 11 was amazing. All of my friends and teachers came to see me and I met great people from all over the country.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Be yourself and be confident in what you love doing. If you hide it and act like you’re embarrassed about dancing, then you’re an easy target. Keep your true friends involved with your life – let them know about great stuff that’s happening to you because of your dance.

 

Idols/mentors:

Professional dancers like Gregg Russell and Andy Blankenbuehler inspire me. They are not only great dancers but great people. At my studio we have some older guys that are great. Ryan Steele has always been a huge influence. We also have a guy who’s at Juilliard, Brandon Cournay. He’s worked so hard and it has totally paid off.

 

 

Art Stone works with his wife, Nancy Stone, at Dance Olympus, Danceamerica, International Dance Challenge, and Art Stone/The Competitor.

 

Perspective:

I started dancing because my father made me. I hated it from the time I started at 3 until I entered college, and then it became my whole life. Since then, everything I have been involved in pertains to dance. It has made my life exciting and interesting, and it has given me a purpose, I have met so many wonderful dancers and teachers on my tours around the country, and I look at life from a whole different angle. I couldn’t be happier.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Explain [to those who criticize them] that some of the biggest athletes in the country, in many fields, take dancing to improve their jumping, coordination, and stamina.

 

Idols/mentors:

From years ago, a dancer named Swen Swenson, Gene Kelly of course, and Patrick Swayze, who is known as an actor but whom I consider a terrific dancer. As for a mentor, I had the best: my father, Jules Stone. He was a teacher, an inspiration, and my best friend.

 

 

Bob Mann is in his 41st year of teaching at the Robert Mann Dance Centre and serves as national executive secretary of Dance Masters of America.

 

Perspective:

Most people my age start to reflect on our accomplishments. Did I do what I set out to do with my life? I think for the most part I did. I think I did my parents and my mentor proud. I have had many students, male and female, who have become successful as performers and dance educators. My former students keep in touch all the time, letting me know how they are doing or asking for my advice.

 

Memorable moments:

My first audition, for the original Gypsy with Ethel Merman, for one of the Newsboys. I made it to the end! Opening my first studio—I spent all the money I had saved and borrowed a few hundred dollars. Getting a call from J. Howard Ferguson, telling me that the advisory committee would like me to teach tap at the National Convention in Boston. Seeing my students recognized at the national competition was a wonderful experience. Becoming the youngest president of the New York City Chapter of DMA. The proudest day of my life was being elected national president of Dance Masters of America.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Today there are many more opportunities for dancers, especially for men. If you are serious about your dancing (by that I mean you attend classes regularly, to study how to dance, not just to dance) you will make it. In today’s market you have to be good at everything. When you attend an audition, you never know what they are going to want, so you have to be prepared. That includes all types of dance training, vocal training, and acting. Those who really want it and are hungry enough to work for it will get the parts.

 

Idols/mentors:

I admire Matt Mattox for his passion in everything he taught; Leon Danelian for his encouragement; Robert Joffrey for making me aware of my ballet potential; Bob Audy and Phil Black for those wonderful days in tap class. My mentor has been [my first teacher], Miss Vickie Sheer. She has always been the most influential person in my dance life.

 

 

Brandon Cournay is a freshman at The Juilliard School in New York City. Memorable moments: Traveling and performing across the country I have met so many awesome people that I still am friends with. I would never have had these opportunities if I weren’t dancing.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

If you want to dance, dance! Do what makes you happy! Being tormented at school is very hard to deal with, but if you really want to dance, then go for it. Mean people at school aren’t going to make it as far as you, because you have a goal and a desire to do what you love, and in the long run you will be happier. Your dance teachers and parents are great people to talk to about being teased at school.

 

Idols/mentors:

I look up to Andy Blankenbuehler [a teacher at Broadway Dance Center and with New York City Dance Alliance] very much; he is the most inspiring teacher I have ever taken from. He has a strong masculine quality in the way he moves. I also have a lot of mentors from my studio back home. Having so many older guys to help me along the way, I’ve established friendships for life.

 

 

Brian Friedman teaches around the world and has been choreographing in Los Angeles. A choreographer for So You Think You Can Dance, he says he’s been living in a whirlwind since the show’s success.

 

Memorable moments:

Dancing onstage for up to 80,000 people in concert, seeing major motion pictures that I’m in at the theater, and dancing on my first award  shows. As a choreographer, the highest points are seeing world tours come to life onstage and being  nominated for choreography awards.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Once you get out of school, you realize what a small part of life that is. You have to stay true to what your heart wants, and if it’s dance, you can’t let anything or anyone stand in your way.

 

Idols/mentors:

As a young dancer I looked up to other local Arizona male dancers, but as I got older looked up to choreographers, including Bob Fosse, Vincent Paterson, Michael Peters, Jamie King, Kenny Ortega, Marguerite Derricks, and Mia Michaels.

 

 

Butch Theisen has been teaching for 33 years with his own teacher and mentor, Marjorie Sellers. He has owned his own studio for 17 years and teaches and judges around the country. He is the national second vice president of Dance Masters of America.

 

Memorable moments:

I was taking a class at a DMA convention in NYC many years ago from Charles Goddertz. At the end he asked me to perform with him, for the entire convention class, the number he had just taught. Another time I had been taking tap class for two weeks at Broadway Dance Center.

The teacher had injured his foot and asked me to demonstrate his classes for him while he sat and conducted the classes.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

If you have the will to dance and want to do it, forget what others might say. It’s your life, not theirs. Live life to the fullest, and if dance is part of it, give it your 100+ percent.

 

Idols/mentors:

Fred Astaire, for his finesse and grace; Donald O’Connor and Ray Bolger for their ability to perform many types of dance; Bob Hope and Gene Kelly. Jack Stanly, whom I only got the chance to take one lesson from, would probably be my male mentor. Most of my background in tap, jazz, and choreography is from him. He was a choreographer before his time.

 

 

Chuck Kelley teaches tap and acrobatics/ tumbling at Broadway Dance Center in New York City and is head of Dance Educators of America’s teacher training programs. He travels the country conducting master classes.

 

Memorable moments:

I was teaching a workshop for Dance Masters in Miami, FL, some 30 years ago. The first acrobatics class that I taught was for the teachers, and I suddenly realized that sitting in the front row taking notes was my teacher and mentor, John Plaza, who had taught for DMA many times. It was nerve-wracking teaching a subject that I had been trained in by the man who was now scrutinizing everything I was doing. When I finished, he stood up and said, “This young man came to New York as a 14-year-old student from Connecticut and has for over 14 years been a student of mine. When I retired I turned my classes over to him. He knows as much about acrobatics and how to teach the subject as I did, and probably now knows more than I do.” The entire room stood up and applauded.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

In this day and age, most boys who decide to dance can overcome ridicule from classmates because they are more knowledgeable about the arts field. But those who have a hard time fending off remarks about being gay or sissy because they dance have to be strong-headed and ask those lowly people, “Can you do a round-off back handspring?” or “Can you jump and change feet in the air four times?”

 

Idols/mentors:

I had many great male teachers. I went to New York because my small-town teacher, Evelyn Macfarlane, wanted me to further my education with better teachers. She sent me to Jack Stanly’s school, where all the teachers were male. When New York teachers started to teach modern jazz, I studied with Matt Mattox, Peter Gennaro, Claude Thompson. My mentor was John Plaza.

 

 

Dan Barris is co-director of Dancers Inc., a competition and convention producing organization; director of Dance Relief, a nonprofit organization that helps dancers in need; a dance studio owner; and a master teacher and lecturer on tap.

 

Perspective:

For male dancers, training options are limited. Many studio teachers are not familiar with the needs of male dancers. They need to find appropriate and tangible role models for these kids. There’s nothing worse than feeling alone and powerless when you are a young boy who is different than the others. Teachers can help these young men grow and develop to their full potential.

 

Memorable moments:

Playing Rooster in Annie was one highlight, and seeing a former student be nominated for a Tony was also quite exciting. Having my former students come home from college at Thanksgiving break and jump into my arms is the most rewarding experience of all. They can’t wait to see me cry when they say, “Thank you, Mr. Dan. I really left here prepared.”

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Dream big! And remember that you only need to stay in your hometown until you graduate from high school. There’s a big world out there that will appreciate you for your talents. Nurture your talent and work on specific skills. Don’t be afraid of the struggle—it’s part of your grow the experience. You need it to become stronger. Find a mentor in your community and don’t lose sight of your goals and dreams. Work hard and be humble. Humility is only a short step from vanity, and vanity is not becoming in anyone. There will always be someone auditioning with you who is just as good as you, but humble beats out attitude at any audition!

 

Idols/mentors:

Linwood Dyer. He trained me as a child. A theatrical wing of a library is dedicated to him now, and he received a Jefferson Award for Contributions to the Arts and Theater from the Jacqueline Kennedy Foundation.

 

 

Gregg Russell teaches professionally throughout the world with Company Dance, Dance Olympus, and Global Dance conventions. He presents his own workshops, 3D Dance Network,  and an annual tap intensive, Tap Into the Network, in Los Angeles. He is launching a new music magazine, Studio Beat, for dance studios.

 

Memorable moments:

Two months before he passed away, Gene Kelly invited me to his house and we talked for over an hour. Another was dancing in the movie Newsies. That was my first job in Los Angeles. Seeing myself on television for the first time was awesome, and getting interviewed and featured in TV Guide. And directing my first commercial last year, for Carvel Ice Cream.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Despite how tough it can be, don’t let others influence what you want to do. If you are a guy and want to dance, then dance! If other kids are playing soccer or sports and you want to fit in, try their sport along with dancing. If that doesn’t interest you, then be proud of your dancing and show it off in the community. One tip is to learn whatever is popular (break-dancing, gymnastics, etc.) and let ’em have it!

 

Idols/mentors:

My brother was a big influence, just by seeing what he had to go through. Also, Gregory Hines, Gene Kelly, Frank Hatchett, Henry LeTang, and Mikhail Baryshnikov. These guys were strong male dancers who you could meet on the street and not know they were dancers. That was a big deal to me when I was growing up and trying to fit in.

 

 

Jason Stotz is a sophomore at the University at Buffalo and dances with the university’s Zodiaque Dance Company. He has trained at the Rochester City Ballet summer intensive and plans to attend the Joffrey Ballet School this summer.

 

Perspective:

I have been training my heart out here and loving every minute of it. My only wish is that I had found this passion earlier in my life, so that I would not be so far behind today. I wish more males could be exposed to dance at an earlier age, for if they find that they love it and can make it through that initial ridicule from peers, there would be nothing to stop them.

 

Memorable moments:

When I first auditioned for the dance department I was blown away by the company and didn’t have the talent for it. Now I’ve worked hard enough to make it in. Standing out on that stage after my performances, with the company I had watched just a year ago, I realized that I had done the undoable.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

It is such an opportune field for males that if it is enjoyable, then continuing in dance is a great path to follow. Over time the ridicule will largely cease, and if it doesn’t, while other guys hit each other full force trying to get a pigskin and others roll around with each other on the floor in Spandex, a male dancer gets to spend his days with beautiful, talented women and other men who share their passion for the art.

 

Idols/mentors:

Ever since I saw [the movie] Center Stage I’ve wanted to dance like Sascha Radetsky and Ethan Stiefel. This was before I started dancing. Ethan does a switch leap in a jazz class, and I remember thinking how I would never be able to do something like that. Now switch leaps are one of my favorite tricks. I also model myself after one the upperclassmen at UB. He’s a very strong dancer of a similar body type, and I’ve been working toward rivaling him ever since I first saw him.

 

 

Jeremy Raia is a premiere soloist with Les Grands Ballets Canadiens de Montréal, where he has danced for eight years. He says he is working and living his dream, and has been since he was 9.

 

Memorable moments:

Getting into and going to Juilliard—it was the best training I could have gotten and it opened my eyes to so many aspects of dance that the studio and competition world didn’t. Also, getting offers from a few companies on my first audition run and dancing the role of Romeo in Romeo and Juliet.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Kids will make fun of anyone and anything that they don’t understand. I had a passion to be a dancer, and no matter what people said to me it was mine, and I wouldn’t let them take it away from me. In a way it made the passion stronger. I think no matter what you want to do, if it’s really inside you, you just let the torment bounce off and push harder.

 

Idols/mentors:

I was completely inspired by Gene Kelly when I was a kid. He was able to do any kind of dance and make it look beautiful and masculine at the same time. Now I am inspired by the other men I dance with. They all come from different places and have different things to offer. There is this unspoken bond because most of us dealt with the same obstacles as kids and pushed through to become successful artists.

 

 

Kenny Wormald is on the faculty at Millennium in Los Angeles. His professional credits include the feature film You Got Served; JoJo, Mariah Carey, and Madonna videos; and commercials for Best Buy, Nissan, and iPod. At press time, he was directing and choreographing a music video for Boniface.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

There are many benefits to being a talented male dancer, so keep your head on straight and try not to let the kids in school run your life for you. I was interviewed on TV when I was 10

Years old for dancing at the White House, and they asked me what the kids at school said about my dancing. I said, “They make fun of me sometimes, but I’ll be making the big bucks when they’re picking up trash.” And 10 years later I’m living in Los Angeles dancing for Mariah Carey and in movies and commercials. I went back home to Stoughton [MA], and there it was—two kids from my high school riding on the back of the trash truck, picking up my trash from my house! So that’s what I tell every young boy who’s dealing with the crap I used to get.

 

Idols/mentors:

Growing up in a studio that had male teachers was huge for me. I was lucky enough to have trained at Sherry Gold Dance Studio, where I had Rhee and Rennie [Gold] to look up to. Rennie was my everyday teacher; I refer to him as a second father. He showed me that I could dance like a man and filled the studio with the best faculty, which taught me discipline and makes me better as a professional dancer.

 

 

Pearce McLain is executive director of operations for International Dance Challenge (IDC) and national director of Dance Olympus/DANCEAMERICA.

 

Perspective:

My career in dance has served me well in every aspect of my life. I operated a dance school, and one can never adequately express the gratification that comes from being part of the development of today’s youth. Teaching young people to activate their minds and bodies as a unit, to yearn to be downstage center, and to project their feelings to the last row of the balcony [is unique to] the performing arts. I, at 48 years old, am proud to say that I am a former professional dancer, and no matter where I say it, people are fascinated.

 

Memorable moments:

Spending my senior year in high school in a touring company and being dance captain was one of the greatest experiences of my life. The travel and rigorous experiences prepared me for the professional career that lay ahead. The high point of my career was being named national director of Dance Olympus/DANCEAMERICA. I grew up on the Dance Olympus ballroom floor, and to be in charge of the operations of this great educational vehicle has been the most fulfilling aspect of my career.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Pull yourself up by the bootstraps and continue. I will never forget the first time I returned home after living and working in New York. I pulled into a gas station in my new Malibu Classic Sedan and guess who was there pumping gas—the ringleader of the gang who tormented me so in high school. I loved having him service my car and clean my windows, while I was on my way to the bank with a check from performing that I am sure was more than he would see in a month. I eventually went back to my hometown and opened a dance school. The best part of continuing my dance career was when the same people who had mistreated me brought their children to me for lessons. It was a silent reinforcement that even though they were so unkind as youths, their sensibility as parents allowed them to make the right decision concerning their children’s education. My passion has served me well and it always will.

 

Idols/mentors:

Gene Kelly—his athletic style of dance proved that the male form could be strong and artistic at the same time. I have to give John Travolta credit for bringing the role of the male dancer to the foreground in the late ’70s. His masculine demeanor showed that men can dance and still evoke manly traits, yet yield to a sensitive side that had not been portrayed in film.

 

 

Terry Lindholm is a talent agent who represents dancers and choreographers in Los Angeles and New York.

 

Memorable moments:

Dancing with Hubbard Street Dance Chicago for Chicago’s 15th birthday celebration, and teaching for Tremaine Dance Conventions. There is nothing more rewarding than teaching. Also, touring with Reba McEntire—she and her husband are the epitome of professionalism and I have never been treated as well by anyone. Sitting on the board of the American Choreography Awards is rewarding because we present an evening that acknowledges our peers and reminds us that we are part of a community that we must cherish.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Standing up for yourself and what you believe is important. Being smart about picking which battles to fight is important because sometimes all people want is for you to engage. The best defense is an offense—being successful shuts people up. If you really want to dance you will find a way to make it work and a group of people that accepts you.

 

Idols/mentors:

Gene Kelly, Bob Fosse, Jack Cole, Jerome Robbins. These people brought such passion and diversity to their craft. They incorporated ballet, jazz, and tap into their choreography as well as an individual style that is incredibly inspiring.

 

 

Tom Ralabate is associate professor of dance at the University at Buffalo [NY], where he has held such positions as assistant chair of dance, director of dance, and director of Zodiaque Dance Company. His research area investigates the multicultural traditions and histories that inform American jazz dance and the comparative study of multiple jazz dance techniques and styles.

 

Memorable moments:

Winning the U.S. Latin Ballroom Dance Championships and representing the U.S. in the World Latin Dance Championships with my sister, Kippy. Also, being the third recipient of the DMA Ivy Hall Award, which was first presented to Gene Kelly.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Find support through family and friends for what you love to do. I believe that nothing can destroy one’s passion or destiny to dance. Dance is a calling.

 

Idols/mentors:

Mikhail Baryshnikov personifies the word “artist.” He was not afraid to take chances in his career. He crossed over into many artistic endeavors: from classical ballet to modern, from Broadway to film to television. I admire master teacher Joseph Giacobbe, the artistic director of Delta Festival Ballet, for his knowledge of dance and understanding of how to develop an artist.

 

 

Tony Bougiouris is a demi-soloist with Les Grands Ballet Canadiens de Montréal, where he has danced for four years.

 

Memorable moments:

Winning Mr. Dance of America 1999 and getting accepted to Juilliard. Living in New York City and attending such a remarkable school with such talented dancers was a life-altering experience. Getting my contract with Les Grands Ballets Canadiens before graduating was also a great moment. I felt like I could grow as an artist and try different types of choreography. Highlights of my career in the company have been working with Mats Ek and Ohad Naharin. Their work is amazing, beyond physical, but exhilarating to perform.

 

Perspective:

Being a dancer is not an easy occupation. You need to take care of yourself and listen to your body. It can be challenging, but you need to connect and reconnect to why you are there in the first place. For me, that is because I have to express myself. When times get tough I go into a studio, put on some music, and just move. I don’t worry about whether it looks bad or if I am being dramatic or whatever. I just move and let myself get lost in whatever I am doing. That helps me. If what you are working on is not that inspiring, inspire yourself.

 

Advice for young male dancers:

Find a group of people that you feel comfortable with and that you can be yourself with. Surround yourself with their positive energy. That is going to be really helpful. You are the only person who can judge yourself. If you are kind to yourself, you will have a much easier time. Work toward a goal. It is not always easy to attain it. Ironically, when you tell yourself to chill out, your body responds to that. Your muscles relax and function more properly, especially for ballet. Just focus on one thing at a time. Slowly, things will improve.

 

Idols/mentors:

I look up to my peers. Seeing their strengths helps me to work on myself. At Juilliard, the late Benjamin Harkarvy and my ballet teacher, Alexandra Wells, helped me find my place in the dance world and in the world in general. They were great teachers.

 

Check out the companion piece to this article, Men In Dance . . . click here

 

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